About depression and its causes

Depression can be more of a low-grade chronic unhappiness with life, or it can be intense feelings of hopelessness and negative thoughts about yourself and your life.

There’s a mistaken belief that depression is a state of mind that you can control by thinking positively. Not so. It is an extremely complicated disorder that most likely results from a complex interplay of individual factors that can be biological, social, psychological and behavioural. Therefore, “thinking positively” won’t cut it.

Other damaging misconceptions about depression include: “depression is the same thing as sadness” and “depression will go away on its own.”

Sadness is a typical emotion that’s expected in situations of loss, change, or difficult life experiences. Depression is more than occasional sadness. Depression involves periods of hopelessness, lethargy, emptiness, helplessness, irritability, and problems focusing and concentrating.

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Why you can’t seem to get better.

Clinical Depression is a long-term, relapsing condition with a tendency towards chronicity. When it goes untreated it can actually change the brain, making episodes worse or more frequent.

Every time a person gets depressed the connections in the brain between mood, thoughts, body, and behaviour get stronger — making it easier for depression to be triggered again.

In fact…

Each episode of depression increases the chances that the person will experience another episode by 16%

The power of the Subconscious Mind

Another reason that depression remains one of the most stubborn, treatment-resistant disorders is because 95 percent of our brain activity is unconscious. That means that the majority of the decisions we make, the actions we take, our emotions and behaviours, all depend on the 95 percent of brain activity that lies beyond conscious awareness.

It’s the same reason why people just can’t seem to lose weight, break toxic relationship patterns, or get out of debt. Often, we know what it is we need to do but we just can’t seem to sustain lasting changes in our behaviour. The same goes with the healthy habits of mind (and body) that are proven to combat depression.

Your subconscious programming is determined by everything you’ve learned and experienced. It’s the direct result of the people (and entities) who have influenced you, including your parents, teachers, colleagues, lovers, friends, and even advertisements.

If your subconscious blueprint is not set for success, nothing you learn and nothing you do will make much of a difference on your path to success. Success in this case being a calm, centred, optimally functioning mind, and a regulated nervous system.

Learn more about my journey with mental illness and how I think it can help you.